Hi, it's Ness. If you've read a page here and thought "wait, I have a question" or "this needs a fix" or "you should really cover this next," this page is for you. I read every me…
Hi, it's Ness. If you've read a page here and thought "wait, I have a question" or "this needs a fix" or "you should really cover this next," this page is for you. I read every message that comes through, usually with a cup of coffee and a dog under the table, and I try to answer like I would a text from a friend planning her own kitchen table event — clearly, and without the fluff.
Email is genuinely the best route: [email protected]. I don't run a call center and I don't have a chat pop-up trying to sell you something — just a real inbox that gets checked most weekdays. If you want to know more about who's behind that inbox before you write in, the About Us page tells the whole story, Nonno Aldo and all.
Truly, almost anything sincere. Here's what tends to come through most:
Before you write in with a suggestion or a comment on someone else's post, it's worth a quick look at our Community Guidelines — it's a short read and it keeps this a place people actually want to visit.
I answer messages roughly in the order they arrive, but a little detail up front speeds everything up. When you write in, try to include:
I try to respond within a few business days. If it's been longer than a week and you haven't heard back, feel free to follow up — emails do occasionally vanish into the void.
I've planned enough events to know that a beautiful table means nothing if someone gets sick from it, so a few things I take seriously, and hope you will too: always cook poultry, ground meats, and eggs to safe internal temperatures, keep hot food hot and cold food cold at parties (the two-hour rule is a real rule), and never taste-test raw dough, batter, or anything with raw egg no matter how tempting it looks in the mixing bowl. If you or a guest has a food allergy or a medical condition affecting diet, please treat every recipe here as a starting point, not a guarantee, and check ingredients accordingly. For the fuller legal picture on how this content should and shouldn't be used, our Disclaimer covers it in detail.
Beyond email, I'm often pinning table settings, seasonal spreads, and hosting inspiration over on Pinterest — it's a nice place to browse when you want ideas without a full recipe read. And if you're curious how this site is put together editorially, from fact-checking to how I decide what gets published, that's all laid out on the Editorial Policy page.
This site started because my grandfather couldn't quite say my name right, and it turned into something he'd have loved — an ongoing invitation to gather people around a table. So if you're writing in, know that it's landing with someone who genuinely wants to help you host well, whether that's a Tuesday dinner for four or a wedding for two hundred. I'm at [email protected], and I mean it when I say I'd love to hear from you.
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